Step 1: define the gifting unit

Per guest suits individual sweets, name cards and personal objects. Per couple or household suits jars, bottles and homeware. Per room suits hotel welcome gifts. Per child may require a separate age-appropriate version.

Step 2: work from assignments

Do not multiply the invitation count. Use the accepted guest list for table gifts and the current rooming list for hotel delivery. A family of four may be four table favours but only one welcome bag.

Step 3: add contingency deliberately

A practical reserve is often around five percent, adjusted for fragility and late changes. Keep spares unpersonalised or with removable name tags. Record where every spare is stored and who may release it.

Example

A wedding has 92 guests: 38 couples sharing, 12 solo adults and 4 children. A bottle gifted per adult household needs 50 units, not 92. Add three spares and order 53. If the children receive a different item, order four plus one spare.

Step 4: create a distribution list

Add columns for guest or household, table or hotel, gift type, personalisation, dietary version and delivered status. Give vendors only the fields they need.

Avoid the “one for everyone” ambiguity

If a shared gift sits between two place settings, label it to both people. If favours are displayed at the exit, announce that each guest should take one and assign someone to replenish the display.

Advice is editorial and intended for planning. Confirm ingredients, allergens, quantities, delivery conditions and current supplier terms in writing.

Frequently asked questions

How many spare wedding favours should we order?

About five percent is a useful starting point, with more for fragile handmade pieces and fewer for products that can be reordered locally.

Do suppliers and children receive favours?

That is optional. Count them deliberately rather than discovering the question during setup.